divorce

Non-traditional couples may face unique legal issues

For many same-sex couples in Massachusetts, issues of marriage and divorce can become complicated. These matters can become exponentially more complex when a couple chooses to relocate to a state in which same-sex marriage is not recognized. In such cases, non-traditional couples are often confronted with legal issues that differ from those faced by heterosexual couples. This may be the case for reality television host David Tutera, whom readers may know for his role on the show ‘My Fair Wedding.’ Tutera married his husband ten years ago, but the couple relocated to a state that does not recognize same-sex marriage. They are now seeking to end their marriage, and are also facing a child custody battle. The couple is currently working with a surrogate who is carrying twins scheduled to be born in July. However, the men have been separated since Jan. 2013, and are currently seeking to end their union. Tutera’s husband is asking for full custody of the twins, and has recently gone public with accusations that Tutera has an addiction to sex. He further claims that Tutera frequently uses the services of escorts and prostitutes to conduct sexual activity. As this case moves through the legal process, the men will likely face issues that confront all non-traditional couples, including difficulties divorcing in a state that does not allow same-sex marriage. The matter of child custody may move forward in a separate proceeding, and each side will have the chance to present a legal argument as to why

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Property division issues for high-earning women who divorce

Times have changed, in Massachusetts and across the nation, and the days in which men were the breadwinners and women were the house makers are long gone. While there are still some households that adhere to this once-standard social norm, many others are comprised of two working spouses. In some cases, women bring in the bulk of the household’s income. For such women who face divorce and the inevitable property division process, there are a number of considerations that come into play. Divorce involves the division of marital assets, which can become complicated in some families. As with any financial matter, the best approach lies in proper planning. To that end, prenuptial or postnuptial agreements are one of the best ways to protect assets in the event of a divorce. Another savvy financial move is to maintain any inheritance money or assets separately from marital funds. Keep such assets within the name of the receiving party, and do not use inheritance funds to pay for jointly held debt. Another issue concerns business interest. For women who own their own business, much of the hard work and effort put into making that business profitable can be lost through divorce. There are ways to safeguard against these types of losses, including the use of trusts or other legal agreements. These avenues should be explored before the need arises to protect one’s business during a divorce proceeding. For women who have achieved a high level of success in the workplace, the best way

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Investing the proceeds from property division

Once the dust settles and the papers are all signed, many newly divorced individuals find that they have a new set of decisions to make. Among these is what to do with the proceeds gained from the property division process. For Massachusetts resident who are emerging from divorce, it may be tempting to put off making additional decision, especially if the divorce was contentious or lengthy. However, letting one’s divorce proceeds simply sit in the bank is never the most financially savvy option. The money that comes as a result of divorce is best put to use in building financial security for one’s future. Whether that means establishing emergency savings, investing in a retirement plan or purchasing a mix of stocks and other investment vehicles, the choices made at this stage can greatly affect one’s finances in the years to come. In addition, there is a great deal of benefit gained from taking a proactive stance toward one’s finances, especially for parties who were not involved in the financial management aspects of the former marriage. Retirement planning should play a role in how divorce proceeds are allocated. In some cases, divorced spouses who were married for at least 10 years can claim benefits from the Social Security record of their former spouse. This is not, however, a comprehensive retirement plan, and should be considered as a means of supplemental retirement income only. The best method of determining how to invest for retirement is to asses existing finances and then estimate

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Same-sex couples face divorce challenges

Divorce can be a daunting prospect, no matter the gender of the spouses. However, when same-sex couples in Massachusetts decide to divorce, they face a set of challenges that heterosexual couples do not. Chief among these are concerns that arise when a same-sex couple resides in a state in which their marriage is not legally recognized. In such cases, spouses are left with little choice in regard to filing for divorce. In some cases they are able to return to the state in which they were married and complete the divorce process there. There is also the possibility of filing for divorce in the state of residence, then waiting to see how the court will handle that action. However, these options presume that both spouses are willing to work together to reach an amicable end to their marriage. When one spouse does not want to ease the process, additional legal issues can arise. One example lies in a challenge by one spouse in regard to jurisdiction. Such a legal challenge could put the brakes on a divorce filing, making it incredibly difficult and expensive for all involved. As the Supreme Court hears two landmark cases on gay marriage, many are advocating for equal rights to divorce. The American social landscape is changing, and more and more states are acknowledging the rights of gay couples to wed and establish a legal family. It is essential that the law in Massachusetts and elsewhere keep pace with such changes, and address these and

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How to avoid complicating property division issues

For many Massachusetts spouses, the decision to end a marriage marks a stressful and emotional time. Making matters worse, it can be hard to project how one’s finances will shift as the divorce process moves forward, and many worry that they will run into financial trouble at some point before the final property division settlement is reached. To lessen these fears, many spouses set up a ‘secret’ bank account or cash to get them through the divorce. There are a number of benefits to having access to one’s own money while a divorce is pending. In some cases, the other spouse will react badly to the divorce, and may restrict access to shared bank accounts or other sources of family assets. This can leave the other spouse with little funding to pay for their legal needs or the cost of daily living. Other times, the decision to set aside some money provides a sense of security, even if that funding is never needed. However, there are risks associated with setting up a hidden savings account. One issue involves the risk that one’s spouse could make an accusation that the act of setting aside money is in effect hiding family assets. This could have negative effects on one’s divorce process, especially if the case goes before a judge. The best way to mitigate this risk is to simply fund the account with assets and income that is strictly your own property. This can come from assets that were brought into the

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Property division the second or third time around

When a Massachusetts marriage ends in divorce, some newly single people jump right back into the love game. For some, the end of their marriage left them feeling a bit defeated, and the urge is strong to get back out there and find love. For others, infidelity on the part of their former partner has left them in need of validation and vulnerable to entering into another bad relationship. However, it is important to realize that many second and third marriages also end in divorce, and issues such as property division become more complicated the second time around. Statistics show that the divorce rate for first marriages sits between 40 and 50 percent. For those in their second marriage, that number jumps to as high as 60 to 67 percent. And for unions in which at least one spouse is on their third try, the chance of divorce is a staggering 70 to 73 percent. By the time most spouses complete their first divorce, their net worth may be reduced due to alimony or child support obligations and the outcome of property division. This leaves individuals with less as they enter into their second marriage. If that union also ends in divorce, the resulting division of assets could be financially devastating. When considering a second or subsequent marriage, it is important to take a close look at the reasons for and results of one’s first divorce. Identifying the issues that led to the split can help to avoid making the

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Getting help with financial needs during divorce

Massachusetts couples who are in the beginning stages of divorce are often overwhelmed by the sheer volume of decisions that must be made. For many couples, issues surrounding finances are chief among their concerns. Understanding the budgetary fallout of a divorce and anticipating future financial needs is imperative to the future success of both spouses, and this is one area in which it makes sense to hire a professional to guide the process. One area if concern involves alimony, and the tax implications for both the paying and receiving spouse. Tax issues are further complicated by the division of shared assets. Liquidating certain types of assets can result in heavy tax penalties, and can reduce the value of an investment by as much as 50 percent. This is an area in which a financial advisor can assist by mapping out the projected tax consequences for each party under a variety of scenarios. For example, there may be instances in which it makes more financial sense to accept less alimony in exchange for retaining certain assets. This allows the asset to transfer hands without a tax hit. It can also minimize the tax burden associated with receiving alimony. On the flip side, a Massachusetts spouse who pays alimony will not pay taxes on that portion of their income. This should be taken into consideration when dividing assets, and it may make sense for that party to retain a greater share of the couple’s assets. While there are a wide range of

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Property division issues often rely on real estate appraisals

Massachusetts couples who are preparing for divorce have a number of issues to consider. For many, property division ranks high among the priorities, and rightfully so. The financial decisions made during divorce can have lasting repercussions for both parties and, therefore, must be made wisely. In determining how real property will be divided between spouses, it is important to understand how property appraisals can affect the process. Regardless of whether the family home will be sold or retained by one spouse, obtaining a real estate appraisal is an important step. A professional appraisal will look closely at recently sold properties in the same geographic area and of the same basic type and style. This data will be used to calculate an estimation of the value of the home in the current real estate market. Once the value has been determined, it can be easier to negotiate the terms of how real property will be divided in the divorce. For example, if the home is to be sold and it appears that the proceeds will not fully cover the cost of the sale, both parties will be able to plan around the eventual out-of-pocket expense of selling the home. In fact, it may make more sense for one party to remain in the home until the real estate market improves and a sale will net a profit instead of a loss. When considering the appraised value of a piece of real property, it is essential that both parties keep in mind

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