divorce

So-called pet custody case settled during gay divorce

Massachusetts readers may have heard of an unusual case centered on the struggle over the care and custody of a shared pet. The dog, a miniature dachshund named Joey, was a pet in the home of a gay couple. When the two women decided to divorce, “custody” of Joey became a central issue. The judge presiding over the divorce agreed to schedule a separate hearing for the purposes of determining where Joey would reside, which marked a highly unusual approach to this form of property division. In many cases, judges refuse to hear arguments over which party will retain the family pets. In other cases, animals are treated as another form of property, and decisions are made based on which party acquired the animal or paid for its care. Very rarely is the issue given significant time in court, making this case highly unusual. Unfortunately for those who looked to the case to present a landmark decision on the issue, the couple was able to settle the matter outside of court. Joey will remain in the care of the woman who received him as a gift from her spouse. There is no mention of whether his other “mother” will be allowed to visit with him. Even though this case did not result in a hearing, pet lovers and animal rights activists still view the matter as a victory. The judge was at least willing to hear the argument, suggesting a shift away from treating animals in the same manner as

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Massachusetts: same-sex couples divorce could be more difficult

Same-sex couples in Massachusetts have expressed their excitement over being able to legally marry. While many have been fighting for this right for quite some time, what they may not have thought about was the divorce process. A recent article touched on some of the reasons why a same-sex couple could have a difficult time getting a divorce. One of the biggest obstacles couples are facing is that a limited number of states recognize same-sex marriage. Many couples have moved since marrying and are now attempting to divorce in a state that does not recognize their marriage. Although several couples have tried to fight this, most cases will require the couple to establish residency in a state that does recognize the marriage before they will be able to start the divorce proceedings. This can obviously be a time consuming process. Another issue arises if the couple has children. In many instances, the biological parent will be the one to receive legal custody which could have a substantial impact on the proceedings. One suggestion is for the non-biological parent to adopt the child which would give them rights to the child as well in most cases. Any same-sex Massachusetts couple trying to file for a divorce could benefit from researching the applicable state laws and determining the best way to move forward with necessary action. As mentioned earlier, if children are involved, a parent could benefit from taking additional steps to ensure all custody concerns are addressed. Having the proper knowledge

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Many factors for Massachusetts couples considering gay marriage

Contemplating marriage can be one of the most important and life-altering decisions that someone will ever make. Same-sex couples in Massachusetts can potentially face many areas of confusion when deciding if the time is right to get married. A recent decision made by the U.S. Supreme Court struck down part of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). As a result, each individual state is able to determine some of the legal variables involved in a gay marriage. There are currently 13 states, including Massachusetts, where same sex marriage is legal. Of the 37 states which do not recognize same-sex marriage, some still offer benefits to same sex partners, while other states grant them no legal status. Tax implications vary across the country for these couples. For example, an individual living in a state that doesn’t recognize gay marriage — but was legally married in a state which does — would be required to declare his or herself as single on any state tax returns. Same-sex couples traveling abroad could face potential risks. Some countries consider any small display of public affection between same-sex partners to be a crime. The possible hurdles in the way of splitting up might be the most important consideration of all for these individuals. Currently, many same-sex couples would have to relocate to a state which recognizes the legality of their marriage — just to be able to formally divorce. The difference in the interpretation of our laws from state to state could create a lot

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DOMA ruling affects divorce for same-sex couples

Marriage is one of the most important commitments a person can make in their lifetime. Massachusetts residents who choose same-sex marriage are usually filled with optimism and hope for the future of their relationship. No couple wants to think about the possibility of divorce. Unfortunately, many relationships do end, and understanding the laws in one’s state, as well as the new rulings issued in the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), is important to protect one’s interests when a marriage ends in divorce. Same-sex marriage is legal in Massachusetts, and therefore, residents of our state do not have to travel to other states to marry. With the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision to strike down part of the DOMA, federal benefits are now available to same-sex couples. Additionally, these couples are recognized on a federal level as being in a legal union. What does that mean for those Massachusetts’s residents seeking divorce? Because Massachusetts recognizes same-sex marriage, those who meet residency requirements are also able to divorce in Massachusetts. Given the new DOMA rulings, divorce for some same-sex couples will now become somewhat more complicated, especially if they have relocated to another state after they got married. Since federal benefits are now available for the spouses in same-sex marriages, these benefits will have to be considered during the dissolution of a marriage. Unfortunately, not all states recognize same-sex marriage, and therefore may not recognize a same-sex divorce, or the protections of the new laws. State and federal laws affect many areas of

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Alimony can be lost based on cell phone data

For many Massachusetts residents who have come through divorce, the money received by way of alimony payments is vital to one’s ability to move forward in their new lives as single people. In many cases, the partner who receives alimony set aside their own education or career advancement in order to support the family unit. When such a marriage ends in divorce, the courts often recognize those sacrifices through an award of alimony. However, spouses who rely on receipt of those payments to make ends meet should be aware that there are choices that can put them at risk of losing their alimony. For example, in many divorce agreements there is a stipulation that alimony will cease of the receiving party remarries or begins to cohabitate with another partner. While this may seem like a clearly defined boundary, in reality the issue of cohabitation can come under serious legal scrutiny. As a new relationship progresses, overnight visits are often the norm. In fact, in the early stages of a new love, many people seek to spend as much time together as possible. For divorced parents who retain custody of their children, spending time with a new partner is often easier in the evening hours, after the children have gone to bed and the house is quiet. However, it is important to consider how one’s lifestyle could come into play if their former spouse chooses to try to stop paying alimony. One tool that is frequently used in alimony cases involves

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A prenup can simplify Massachusetts property division

When a couple is preparing to begin a life together as husband and wife, many consider drafting a prenuptial agreement. Once considered to be solely in the realm of the rich and famous, these contracts are becoming commonplace within many marriages, regardless of wealth. A prenuptial agreement can greatly simplify the property division portion of a Massachusetts divorce, in the event that a marriage does not work out. In order to create a prenup that will withstand any future legal challenge, there are a few necessary precautions that should be taken at the onset. A prenup should be clearly drafted and easy for all parties to understand. It should outline a fair distribution of assets in the event of a divorce, and not make any extreme or unbalanced demands. Finally, a prenuptial agreement should be just that: an agreement, not a condition of marriage. Should one party try to challenge a prenup, the matter will likely go before a judge. Judges will review the agreement to ensure that it was created as an outline of how assets are to be divided in the event of divorce. Stipulations or conditions that are unfair or heavily biased toward one party are likely to be thrown out. In the event that the entire document is found to be invalid, the property division process will revert back to the guidelines of the state. The best way to create a prenuptial agreement that is fair and enforceable is to work together to structure the Massachusetts

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Property division can lead to Massachusetts condo disputes

As some Massachusetts residents know, having a vacation condo is a luxury couples enjoy. However, when a couple decides to divorce, the shared condo can become a thorn in the property division process. If the condominium is not the primary residence, then charges and fees associated with the shared property can complicate property division. Condominiums are not often the main place of residence for many couples as they are more commonly used as vacation spaces or rental property. Nevertheless, fees must be paid to building owners to maintain the space. When a couple is divorcing, building owners can often be burdened with a lack of fee payment. If the issue of who will be sole owner of a condo is unclear, one party may not wish to continue to pay maintenance fees on a place they do not live and may not own after the divorce. Building owners may face their own legal issues if a divorcing couple cannot come to an agreement about a shared condo. Owners may need legal paperwork should one individual wish to keep the other title holder out of the shared space. Additionally, if the parties cannot come to terms with fee payments, building owners may have to take action for nonpayment, which could include eviction or suing for compensation. Property division can become exceedingly complicated when third parties are involved. Making the divorce and division process as painless as possible is usually the route most parties would like to take. Understanding the rights and

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When to seek help in the property division process

Just as no two marriages are ever alike, so it goes with divorce. While reality television shows would have us believe that every divorce is embittered and nasty, in the reality version of reality there are many Massachusetts couples who end their marriages amicably. However, when it comes to the process of disentangling lives and finances, there can be such a thing as being ‘too nice,’ especially during the property division portion of the experience. Some spouses feel guilty about ending their marriage, especially if the other spouse is not ready to throw in the towel just yet. Other times, there have been lapses of judgment that lead one party to carry feelings of guilt. When considering how to end a marriage, the best course of action is to look at the process as a business transaction, leaving emotions completely out of the matter. For spouses who are considering filing for divorce without an attorney, it is important to understand what is at stake. The decisions made throughout the divorce process can have lasting effects, especially financial issues handled during the property division portion of a divorce. Having solid legal counsel is not an aggressive stance against one’s former partner, it is simply an acknowledgment that divorce is a complicated legal matter that requires a comprehensive understanding of Massachusetts law. When preparing to divorce, the best approach to take is to make every effort to protect one’s legal interests, and assume that one’s partner is going to do the same.

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