May 2012

A greater number of women are paying alimony to their husbands

Alimony and child support in the past has been traditionally seen as something that men pay to their ex-wives. In this traditional role, women were expected to stay at home and take care of the children, and thus needed to be financially supported after a divorce. However, with gender equality becoming more widespread in Massachusetts and elsewhere, alimony and child support are now awarded to the husband in many cases. A nationwide study shows that divorce lawyers across the United States, including in Massachusetts, have seen an increase of women who pay alimony or child support to their former husbands. Around 56 percent of divorce lawyers report that they’ve seen more women paying child support and 47 percent report a higher rate of women who pay alimony to their former husbands. The reason behind this shift is simple: as women take over the financial responsibilities that were once the sole responsibility of men, courts are holding them to the same responsibilities that husbands alone used to face. This is especially true as many women are able to find higher paying jobs than their husbands in this bad economy. As can be imagined, not all women are happy about having to pay either alimony or child support. In several high-profile cases, several women had bitter disputes in divorce courts over this matter. However, even though many women can feel unfairly treated as they are ordered to pay alimony and child support, this shows a huge step for gender equality has happened.

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Same-sex couples rights affirmed when lesbian mom files paternity

Unfortunately, same-sex couples’ rights are sadly lacking in many parts of the country. While in Massachusetts, same-sex marriage is allowed and seen positively, in other places many of the same-sex couples’ rights are denied. Fortunately, in one state, clear progress can be seen when a lesbian mother has been allowed to file a paternity suit for her child in a groundbreaking case. Two lesbians had decided to make a family in 2006 in which they would adopt two biological daughters. Because at that time their state didn’t allow them to adopt the children as a lesbian couple, they each legally adopted a girl and raised the two together. However, in 2009, all of this changed. After the women decided to separate, one of the women moved to Norway, taking her legal daughter and leaving behind the girl’s sister and her shocked ex, who had not expected this drastic move. The two sisters didn’t even have the chance to say goodbye to one another. After investigating the various legal options available to her, the woman in the United States, fought for child custody by filing a paternity suit. While paternity suits are typically filed by fathers seeking to spend time with their children, a state law had passed which allowed for non-biological fathers to seek custody. After discussing the case, a judge ruled that the paternity suit was valid since it would be discriminatory to allow non-biological fathers to sue but not non-biological mothers. Massachusetts has traditionally been ahead of the

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Michael Jackson’s bodyguard asserts paternity claims over his son

For Massachusetts fathers, one of their most powerful means they can have to assert their parental rights is through paternity claims. Once initiated, an investigation whether the paternity claim is true can commence. If the claims are corroborated, this can allow for child custody changes or visitation to be modified accordingly so that the father can then share in his child’s life, depending on the facts and circumstances surrounding the case. The power of these claims can especially be seen in a new development in which a former bodyguard of Michael Jackson has stepped up and asserted paternity claims for one of Michael Jackson’s sons. The bodyguard claims that he is biological father of Blanket, Michael Jackson’s youngest son, and he would like to have visitation rights. In particular, he would like his terminally ill mother to be able to meet her alleged grandson before she dies. The bodyguard claims that he donated sperm for Michael Jackson to use when Michael Jackson expressed interest for an athletic child. Later, when the bodyguard met with Michael Jackson, the bodyguard asked whose child the boy was, and Jackson purportedly admitted that the sperm he used for the child was the bodyguard’s. The Jackson family, understandably, are wary of the claim. The bodyguard claims that he has no financial incentive for the child because he states he is already financially successful and that he doesn’t want anything but visitation rights with Blanket. He will provide his DNA for a paternity test and ask

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Private eyes get involved in Massachusetts alimony cases

For Massachusetts residents who are receiving alimony checks, it may be a good idea to look around your surroundings a little bit closer. Someone may be watching you. Interestingly enough, your behavior could have an impact on the status of the alimony payments you currently receive. In the past, alimony payments could be stopped when the ex-spouse who received payments was remarried. However, with shifting societal attitudes toward marriage and relationships, many unmarried couples live with each other and some couples never intend to get married. This, in turn, could cause problems for ex-spouses who are ordered to pay alimony to their former spouses who may be living with another partner without the intent to marry. Massachusetts Governor Deval Patrick signed a bill into law that included provision that says that if the former spouse who is receiving alimony is proved to be living with another adult, a family court judge has the option to decrease, suspend or end alimony payments. However, when the governor signed this bill in late 2011, he probably had no idea that the new law would create a boom for private investigators. Because of the rules, those who believe their alimony payments are unfair have the ability to hire a private investigator to determine their former spouse’s relationship status. At the moment, there is a lot of discussion as to whether or not these practices are ethical. Yet there is currently nothing that makes the use of private investigators in alimony disputes illegal, so courts

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