December 2013

So-called pet custody case settled during gay divorce

Massachusetts readers may have heard of an unusual case centered on the struggle over the care and custody of a shared pet. The dog, a miniature dachshund named Joey, was a pet in the home of a gay couple. When the two women decided to divorce, “custody” of Joey became a central issue. The judge presiding over the divorce agreed to schedule a separate hearing for the purposes of determining where Joey would reside, which marked a highly unusual approach to this form of property division. In many cases, judges refuse to hear arguments over which party will retain the family pets. In other cases, animals are treated as another form of property, and decisions are made based on which party acquired the animal or paid for its care. Very rarely is the issue given significant time in court, making this case highly unusual. Unfortunately for those who looked to the case to present a landmark decision on the issue, the couple was able to settle the matter outside of court. Joey will remain in the care of the woman who received him as a gift from her spouse. There is no mention of whether his other “mother” will be allowed to visit with him. Even though this case did not result in a hearing, pet lovers and animal rights activists still view the matter as a victory. The judge was at least willing to hear the argument, suggesting a shift away from treating animals in the same manner as

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Military divorce rates down, fathers’ rights still an issue

Recently released data suggests that the rate of divorce filings among military couples has decreased in 2013. According to newly reported Defense Department data, divorce rates have fallen one tenth of a percent. However, divorce among families of enlisted service members still outpaces that of officers. The overall decrease in divorce filings is great news for Massachusetts military families. However, for parents who decide to end their marriage, fathers’ rights concerns are particularly troublesome for men in the military. While our nation extends a great deal of support and admiration for the men and women who serve within the armed forces, there are areas in which military service can actually serve as a detriment. Child custody is one example in which the decision to serve can lead to legal difficulties. Many men who have chosen to pursue a military career encounter difficulties when trying to assert their parental rights in a family court. One issue that military fathers frequently face involves the risk of deployment. In many cases, mothers and their attorneys are able to convince a court that the risk of deployment is a significant factor in awarding full or joint child custody to a man who serves within the military. As a result, fathers in this position can find that their ultimate child custody arrangement is not on par with that which a non-military parent could reasonably expect. For those who are passionate about remaining actively involved in the lives of their children after a Massachusetts divorce, this

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Discussing spousal support and child support with an attorney

When a Massachusetts marriage ends in divorce, the financial fallout can lead to a drastic shift in budgeting and financial stability for both sides. Child support and spousal support are among the most pressing concerns for many. Regardless of whether an individual expects to pay or receive either form of financial support, the way that the numbers will break down will have a big impact on their future financial outlook. Understanding how the payments are likely to be structured is a top priority during the early stages of a divorce. While there are a number of online resources that claim the ability to calculate alimony and child support payments, the best source of information about these matters is one’s divorce attorney. For those spouses who expect to make these payments, the first step in calculating the estimated payment amount is to provide the attorney with a comprehensive accounting of one’s income, as well as any income earned by the other spouse. It is also important to provide bank statements, recent tax returns, retirement account information and any other relevant financial information. For those spouses who expect to receive child support and/or alimony, the same information is required, for both you and your spouse. It may also be helpful to have a list of any special needs on the part of shared children, and a summary of any expenses such as private schooling, tutoring or other expenses that fall outside the realm of general living expenses. Using this information, the attorney

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Couples must take time to discuss finances, property division

When a Massachusetts couple decides to end their marriage, the manner in which they choose to divide their assets is often the central focus of the divorce process. However, even couples who are unmarried can find themselves in need of property division assistance. In the absence of marriage, couples who share expenses can find little guidance in the division of accumulated assets and debts, leaving many in a precarious financial position. For couples who are not yet married but are sharing housing and other expenses, experts advise against pooling income and assets. A better approach is to simply divide the household expenses in a manner acceptable to all parties, then pay those bills from separate accounts. For example, a couple might agree that one party who earns significantly more will be responsible for the rent and utilities, while the other covers the cost of food and household supplies. Another important factor within a serious relationship is to have a series of open and honest discussions about each partner’s approach to money. This includes a full disclosure of existing debt, assets and income. It is also helpful to talk about future financial plans, such as savings and retirement goals. Having these talks can help both partners decide if the financial outlook of the other party is in line with their own. For those who decide to marry, detailed financial discussions can also make it easier to broach the subject of a prenuptial agreement. The process of drafting such a contract is

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